Couples Who Climax Together Stay Together… Tips To Make It Happen
Men and women reach orgasms in different ways and usually at different times, with many admitting that they’ve never experienced a mutual orgasm before, no matter how hard they try. But did you know that there are a few different things you can try to experience this? And believe us, once you do, sex will never be the same again!
It’s not going to be easy, but it’s going to be worth it – we can promise you that. Here’s a few tips on how to go about climaxing together…
Don’t expect it to happen straight away. Men and women require different stimulations – women typically tend to orgasm from oral stimulation, whereas men tend to orgasm from penetration – but it takes a different length of time for both; men take just a few minutes, whilst women take 10+ minutes.
For the first round, do it however you wish and don’t put the pressure on yourselves, and then in round two he should find that he’s got a little more stamina and control, making it more likely to happen simultaneously.
Find your position
You don’t have to be having full penetration in order climax together – it will feel amazing either way. But as a guide, the “69” and “doggy style” are both great positions for dual stimulation. If the male starts to appear as though they’re close to climaxing, don’t be afraid to squeeze the head of his penis for a few seconds in order to reduce blood flow and give yourself a little more time to catch up.
Bring out the big guns (aka toys)
Don’t be afraid to introduce toys into the mix, stimulating one or both of you involved and helping you to a great climax. Vibrators, penis rings and the like can be used to enhance the mood and help move along the process if one is ‘close’ and the other isn’t.
If at first you don’t succeed…
… try, try again.
It’s worth remembering that it’s going to take some time to master this – just because it doesn’t happen straight away, doesn’t mean it never will. Don’t give up, just try again next time. It’ll be worth it, we promise!
Don’t put too much pressure on yourselves and don’t turn sex into a chore – it’s still an intimate moment for you and your partner that should be enjoyed.
Found in Sexual Health